Every Monday, I start my week by highlighting what made me happy from the previous week, because gratitude is the first step in learning how to be happier.
I had a lot to be grateful for this week.
After five years, I saw my stepdad again. He looked sick, thin, and old – but he smiled and laughed just the same. I asked if he knew that I loved him, and he said that he did. He asked me the same thing, and I reassured him, too. It was so, so good to retie that knot.
On Wednesday, Jared and I got to meet my friend Jenness and her charming husband, Tom, for dinner at a Thai restaurant. The food was good, the company was even better, and the parting gifts were unexpected and thoughtful. (Seriously, I never think to bring presents when I meet someone. Why didn’t my mom teach me this?) I love finally meeting people who I’ve known online, and it was so cool that Jenness and Tom were willing to drive 45 minutes to meet us.
On Thursday, my brother-in-law and his wife had their fourth child, a beautiful baby girl.
There is nothing better than a newborn baby. I love them. In fact, I love holding them so much that when we got to the hospital and her mother asked if anyone wanted to hold her, I waited about two seconds before jumping in and grabbing her. It was only several minutes later that I found out she’d just finished having her once-over by the nurses and no one else (except her mom and dad) had gotten to hold her yet.
OOPS.
I’m only a little bit sorry.
And I’m totally trying to figure out how to get as much time as possible to hold her over the next month before we move.
Speaking of which, I bought a plane ticket to go to Pittsburgh in July and find an apartment. But more importantly:
We sold the RV.
That chapter is now, officially, closed. An archive page. A something we did instead of something we’re doing. It feels like just yesterday I was anxiously counting the days in my home office in Florida, eager to get on with it. Now I’m counting down the days in my in-laws’ guest room, just as eager to get on to the next it.
Waiting for new beginnings is always the hardest part for me. I suppose that’s one of the reasons I love babies so much; they signal the end of the waiting and the beginning of the next great thing.
Plus, they smell amazing.
What are you grateful for today?






I love your Monday posts. Got to love that new baby smell!
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Thanks, Corey. And yes, you really do. Mmmmmmm…
I’m glad the visit went well and that baby! How very sweet. Change is good, new chapters! Good luck!
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I know, I could just hold that baby all day and night if her mom would let me.
Wow! That’s a lot of excitement in one week! Here are my happiness highlights from last week: http://ajigreer.blogspot.ca/2012/06/happy-friday_15.html
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Yay for happy stress.
Sounds like a really great week, all things considered! Today I am grateful my son escaped a close encounter of the high impact kind with a cousin who was using a porch swing like a playground swing, with nothing more than a tiny cut on the inside of his lip. Deep deep appreciation for guardian angels today.
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Yikes!
grateful and appreciating water today. I never thought about how important water was until I spent the last three years where I did.
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I love water. Even the little creek that runs through town here is so soothing to me.
I just discovered your blog today and I love it! I’ve recently been working on appreciating the happiness already present in my own life and I think your blog does that really well.
The weekly challenge is a great idea, I am going to give brushing with my left hand a try- should be good for a chuckle!
I’m already excited for next Monday’s post!
Kimberley’s Quests’s most recent post: Quest for Happiness [Day 17]
I actually post Monday, Wednesday, and Friday – so you don’t have to wait a whole week! Nice to “meet” you.
I am grateful for your happy post! And for time spent with my 90-year-old mother-in-law today, doing puzzles.
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I’m glad you liked the post – and that you got to spend time with your MIL.
I settled 3 cases last week, and when I told Deb about them, she said, “Wow–so you made more this week than you used to make in a year (before I quit my old job). That’s amazing.”
More importantly, I got free ice cream yesterday at a neighborhood father’s day event!
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Deb is right; that is pretty amazing.
I’m grateful that I finally have a court date [next monday] to finalize some things in my life. 3 years has to be some sort of record, for something claimed to be ‘uncontested’…
I’m so happy you were able to see your step-dad…
also – babies really do smell amazing…
Karla Porter Archer’s most recent post: Celebrating Every Day
Oh man. That is a LONG time to live in limbo.
Love new babies and since this was your BIL 4th, I am sure it was “just hand the kid over to someone”.
I used to meditate and even for 5 minutes, centers you. I need to get back to that practice.
Also nice that you will be a few hours away from us Clevelanders you met last year but got to ask, what will you be doing in Pittsburg?
Hugs and love
What do you mean? Like – WHY Pittsburgh or what will I be doing for a job?
I meant, why did you pick that one area over all that you have visited? I like the area because of how pretty it is with the rolling hills etc and just wondering what you will be doing besides your writing etc which you do so well. That is all.
Ah! LOTS of reasons. I have an article coming out on the Pittsburgh Magazine website in July that explains a lot. I’ll probably write more about it after that, too.
AGH! I was catching up in google reader today and JUST found this! And I must’ve missed this in my Facebook feed as well. I’m a BAD friend, VERY BAD.
It was such a genuine pleasure to meet you and Jared. I can’t believe we forgot to take a picture! You are such a beautiful person, inside and out. *hugs*
We would LOVE to do dinner again before you leave!
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I’ll let you know if I can get another free night!
New beginnings and archiving past experiences is what life is all about.
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